When you’re struggling with love, friends often have plenty of advice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
“That’s just how men are.”<\/em> But before you accept those words as the truth, ask yourself one question.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Is that advice really based on a full understanding of your situation?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Your friends only know what you’ve told them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n They don’t truly know how the other person feels.<\/p>\n\n\n\n They usually don’t have the full picture of your relationship, your shared history, your personalities, your circumstances, or the timing of everything that’s happened between you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n On top of that, people naturally give advice through the lens of their own experiences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Someone who has been deeply hurt may tell you not to trust anyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Someone whose relationship worked out may encourage you to keep pursuing the person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But those are their<\/strong> experiences\u2014not yours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In relationships, there are very few absolute answers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n People’s emotions, personalities, values, and life circumstances are all different, which means the outcome can be different too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n That’s why it’s risky to accept a single opinion as the ultimate truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The real question isn’t who<\/strong> gave<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u5fc3\u6674\u308c\u308b\u307e\u3067<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u571f\u5c4b\u68a8\u6c99<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" When you’re struggling with love, friends often have plenty of advice. “That’s just how men […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":16,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-216873","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-column","category-hitokoto"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\n\t\t\n
“They’re definitely not interested.”<\/em>
“You should just move on.”<\/em>
“Don’t text them anymore.”<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n