Experience and knowledge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I still believe that, when it comes to certain things in life, experience often matters more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
No matter how much you study or how much knowledge you gain, there are some things you simply cannot understand until you\u2019ve actually experienced them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Of course, knowledge is important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But when you\u2019re actually standing in that moment, how you act and how you make your decisions can make all the difference.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When it comes to love, real-life experience is everything.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Bringing war into a conversation about love might sound like an extreme comparison.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But in the end, I think love is something you have to face in the real world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n There are things you simply cannot know until you actually face another person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n How do you respond to their words? I think that\u2019s what really matters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Of course, you still need boundaries. But within all of that, you have to decide for yourself:<\/p>\n\n\n\n What should I do? I believe that\u2019s one of the most important parts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I\u2019ve learned this lesson myself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n There have been times when I put my friends\u2019 opinions above my own judgment, and I ended up making mistakes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Through my work as a fortune teller, I\u2019ve seen countless relationships. And even after all of that, I still believe this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Love is something you have to experience firsthand.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n You can know everything there is to know about relationships, but when you\u2019re actually standing face-to-face with someone, you don\u2019t truly know how you\u2019ll respond until you\u2019re there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Lately, especially among younger people, I hear things like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cI just can\u2019t seem to meet anyone I\u2019m really interested in.\u201d Of course, everyone has their own reasons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But sometimes, I wonder if part of the problem is simply that they haven\u2019t had enough real experience connecting with other people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n That doesn\u2019t mean you should stop protecting yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Protect yourself while watching how the other person chooses to respond.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Take your time. It\u2019s not easy, but maybe this is one of the closest things to a \u201cwinning strategy\u201d in love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And I think this applies to everyone, regardless of gender.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In the end, relationships begin with conversation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n There is communication. Then you gradually learn about each other\u2019s upbringing, the environments you grew up in, the experiences that shaped you, and the lives you\u2019ve lived.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I believe that\u2019s how two people gradually become connected.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Of course, coming from different backgrounds doesn\u2019t mean a relationship can\u2019t work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n There are many international couples who have built beautiful relationships precisely because they learned to understand and respect the different cultures and environments that shaped them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I\u2019ve seen many couples like that through my work, and I have many friends in those kinds of relationships as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But even between two people from the same country, differences in upbringing can sometimes create significant challenges.<\/p>\n\n\n\n That\u2019s why, when you\u2019re looking for a partner, I think it\u2019s important to look beyond who someone is right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Try to understand:<\/p>\n\n\n\n What kind of environment did they grow up in? Because understanding the person behind the person you\u2019re meeting can be just as important as falling in love with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Understand the other person. Because when it comes to love,<\/p>\n\n\n\n you have to experience it firsthand.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n A thought from LISA today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n See you next time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u5fc3\u6674\u308c\u308b\u307e\u3067<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u571f\u5c4b\u68a8\u6c99<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Experience and knowledge. I still believe that, when it comes to certain things in life, experience often matt […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":16,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-219179","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-column","category-hitokoto"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\n\t\t\n
How much can you truly take in and accept?
Instead of simply arguing your own point, can you understand what the other person is feeling and where they\u2019re coming from?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You need to respect the people around you and maintain a sense of order.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
How should I respond?
How should I make my decision?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I\u2019ve listened to countless stories about love, and I\u2019ve spent years facing the different paths people\u2019s futures can take.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cI can\u2019t seem to fall for anyone.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pay attention.
Learn who they really are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You discover the things you have in common.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
What experiences shaped them?
What kind of life have they lived?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Understand yourself.
And then, actually face the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n