\u201cHow do I make these feelings go away?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
I\u2019ve been doing fortune-telling for a long time, and I\u2019ve realized something.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Maybe human beings are simply meant to live with a certain amount of uncertainty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We feel anxious because we don\u2019t know what will happen next.
We become afraid because something matters to us.
And when it comes to someone we truly love, I think it\u2019s completely natural to feel insecure sometimes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The important thing is not whether you can completely get rid of those feelings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s how you process them within yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n And even more importantly\u2014<\/p>\n\n\n\n how you choose not to attack the person you love because of them.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n When we\u2019re anxious, it\u2019s easy to blame someone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sometimes it feels unfair. You might think,<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cWhy am I the one who has to put up with this?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n But maybe that isn\u2019t losing at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Maybe we\u2019re looking at love the wrong way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I don\u2019t think love is about winning or losing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n There are so many different forms of happiness in this world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So maybe one of the most important questions we can ask ourselves is:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cWhat does happiness actually look like for me?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n I think that question matters more than we realize.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Love is free.<\/p>\n\n\n\n There are no perfect rules. And maybe that\u2019s exactly why love can make us so anxious.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Because nothing is guaranteed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But that uncertainty is also where the possibility begins.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Because you don\u2019t know what will happen, there is still a chance.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Because the future hasn\u2019t been decided yet, it can still change.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So when you feel anxious about someone you love, maybe you don\u2019t have to fight the feeling itself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Maybe you just need to understand it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sort through it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And most importantly, don\u2019t turn your fear into an attack against the person you love.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n I\u2019ve watched relationships unfold through my work for a long time, and I truly believe that choosing not to attack someone when you\u2019re hurting can sometimes be the strongest thing you can do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It may feel unfair.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It may feel frustrating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It may even feel like you\u2019re the one who lost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But maybe you didn\u2019t lose anything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Maybe you simply chose a different kind of happiness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And maybe, in love, being uncertain isn\u2019t the end of the story.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Maybe it\u2019s where the story finally begins<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u5fc3\u6674\u308c\u308b\u307e\u3067<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u571f\u5c4b\u68a8\u6c99<\/p>\n\n\n\n I get a lot of questions about anxiety in love. \u201cWhat should I do when something makes me feel insecure?\u201d\u201cHow […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":16,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-219477","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-column","category-hitokoto"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\n\t\t\n
Sometimes it hurts.
Sometimes you feel frustrated.
Sometimes, honestly, you even feel like you\u2019ve lost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
There is no fixed order.
There is no \u201cright\u201d timing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/uranaiyakata.com\/shinjuku\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/B0D35C4B-DA2D-4AE3-A9E9-BE4CF8FB3F1B-1-1024x819.png\")
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