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The Reality of Love<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSynchronicity\u2026 How do I actually meet someone through it?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I get this question all the time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once you graduate from school and enter the working world, if you\u2019re living a fairly ordinary life, there actually aren\u2019t that many opportunities to meet new people outside of your workplace or existing social circles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You meet someone by chance, and somehow, without doing anything, they just fall in love with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Honestly, that doesn\u2019t happen very often in real life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But if you become genuinely interested in someone, recognize and appreciate who they are, and gradually get closer to them, there are times when that person may also begin to think,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI really like this person.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, men and women can sometimes have very different ways of thinking about love and different patterns of behavior, which can make relationships incredibly complicated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But there is something I always think about:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You become someone\u2019s number one because you are loved.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe it\u2019s actually pretty rare for two people to meet and immediately become each other\u2019s \u201cnumber one.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even with your favorite idol, your feelings may not stay the same forever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s even a word for it in Japan: oshi-change<\/em>\u2014switching your favorite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You might start liking someone else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or your feelings might change after hearing rumors about your favorite idol dating someone or getting married.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In the end, people aren\u2019t attracted to appearance alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I think that is incredibly important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why I always tell you to look for someone who is close to you in the ways that truly matter:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Someone whose sensibilities and way of thinking are similar to yours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Someone whose lifestyle fits naturally with yours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Someone who grew up in a somewhat similar environment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And someone whose intellectual sensibility and ability to think are relatively close to your own.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Choosing a partner like that is extremely important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because when you fundamentally don\u2019t see things the same way, conversations can become difficult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It becomes harder to understand each other\u2019s opinions, and sometimes even harder to accept them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In the spiritual world, there are times when the flow of someone\u2019s future can be seen with surprising clarity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But even if a wonderful future is visible, you can still miss that opportunity if you never take action yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I believe that is just as important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead of simply waiting and asking,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWhen will my destined person appear?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Try meeting people yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Try to understand them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And allow yourself to change and grow along the way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe it is through those actions that synchronicity begins to happen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And there is one more thing that matters:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Learning to recognize people who are not good for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes, you need to cut ties.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But I don\u2019t believe that \u201ccutting people off\u201d is always the right answer, either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Human beings don\u2019t live completely alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes we need someone\u2019s help.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes we are the ones who help someone else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That is how human relationships are built.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The truth is, human beings can have dark sides.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes we put money or our own interests first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But that isn\u2019t everything we are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There is kindness that asks for nothing in return.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There is love that cannot be explained in terms of profit or loss.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There is a genuine desire to help someone without expecting anything back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I believe those things truly exist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And that is why I want to guide you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not simply by telling you what your future might look like,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

but by helping you become someone who can move your own life forward.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That is why I am here.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m looking forward to seeing all of you again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Thank you, always, from the bottom of my heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ll be waiting for you all again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Until your heart feels clear again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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