{"id":219724,"date":"2026-09-15T11:19:12","date_gmt":"2026-09-15T02:19:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/uranaiyakata.com\/shinjuku\/?p=219724"},"modified":"2026-09-15T11:19:13","modified_gmt":"2026-09-15T02:19:13","slug":"%e9%81%8b%e5%91%bd%e7%89%a9%e8%aa%9e","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/uranaiyakata.com\/shinjuku\/2026\/09\/219724\/","title":{"rendered":"\u904b\u547d\u7269\u8a9e"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u201cHow do I find my soulmate?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I get this question all the time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And yes, I will always share what I believe can help you find the person who is truly meant for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But there\u2019s something important I want you to understand:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You have to move, too.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your soulmate may not simply appear in front of you while you wait.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes, you have to put yourself out there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Go somewhere new.
Talk to someone you normally wouldn\u2019t talk to.
Meet people outside your usual circle.
Step into a world you haven\u2019t experienced before.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because creating opportunities to meet someone is also part of finding love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And there\u2019s something else I want you to remember.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you choose a partner, don\u2019t lose sight of who you are<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t chase an ideal that has nothing to do with your real self.
And don\u2019t choose someone based only on money, status, or appearances.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, those things can matter.
Everyone has different values and different things they want in a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But they aren\u2019t everything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Compatibility can be found in so many other places:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your values.
The way you think.
Your lifestyle.
The way you communicate.
The rhythm of your conversations.
How safe and comfortable you feel together.
And the way you see life and the future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There will always be people who are right for you\u2014and people who simply aren\u2019t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And that\u2019s okay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Someone can look perfect on paper and still not be the right person for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And sometimes, the person you never expected can become the one who makes you think,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI can just be myself with this person.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That feeling matters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So when you\u2019re falling in love, don\u2019t only ask yourself,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cDoes everyone else think this person is amazing?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ask yourself:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cCan I be completely myself when I\u2019m with this person?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You shouldn\u2019t have to lose yourself just to make a relationship work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Find someone you can walk through life with while still being true to who you are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That, to me, is one of the most important parts of finding the person who is truly meant for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A soulmate isn\u2019t necessarily someone who magically appears while you wait.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes, they\u2019re someone you meet because you decided to take one step forward.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So take that step.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And if you ever find yourself wondering,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIs this person the one?\u201d
\u201cWhere should I go from here?\u201d
\u201cWhat should I do next?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can always talk to me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ll be here.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u571f\u5c4b\u68a8\u6c99<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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