What really matters in a relationship?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Is it love?
Having fun together?
Sharing the same values?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Of course, I think all of those things matter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But out of all of them,
I think one of the biggest questions is:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Can you truly trust this person?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n When you\u2019re in love with someone, They take a little longer to text back. And just like that, When we\u2019re anxious, But maybe what really matters isn\u2019t Maybe it\u2019s whether the two of you have built a relationship \u201cI know this person. Trust doesn\u2019t mean accepting everything someone does If something hurts you, talk about it. Even after all of that, \u201cI\u2019m going to trust this person.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n To me, And there\u2019s something else that\u2019s just as important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you want to be able to trust someone, You want the person you love to feel,<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cI can trust this person with my heart.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Because I don\u2019t think love is supposed to be Trust has to go both ways.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And it isn\u2019t built overnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s built slowly\u2014 That\u2019s why, for me, \u201cPlease trust me.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n I\u2019d rather have a relationship where, naturally, \u201cI can trust you.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n You trust someone because you love them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And sometimes, I think that kind of trust <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u5fc3\u6674\u308c\u308b\u307e\u3067<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u571f\u5c4b\u68a8\u6c99<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" What really matters in a relationship? Is it love?Having fun together?Sharing the same values? Of course, I th […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":16,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-219784","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-column","category-hitokoto"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\n\t\t\n
it\u2019s easy to start noticing the little things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Their messages feel different than usual.
You start wondering what they\u2019re thinking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
it\u2019s easy to become anxious.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
sometimes we stop looking at what is actually happening
and start believing the story we\u2019ve created in our own heads.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
whether you have a reason to doubt someone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
where you can honestly think,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I believe in them.
I think we\u2019re going to be okay.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
without question.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If something makes you feel uneasy, say it.
And if you don\u2019t know what\u2019s really going on,
don\u2019t immediately fill in the blanks with your own assumptions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
you can still choose to say,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
that\u2019s what makes a relationship strong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
you also have to become someone
they can trust.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
one person constantly trying to prove themselves
while the other person keeps questioning them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
through the little things you do,
the promises you keep,
the conversations you have,
and the way you show up for each other over time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I\u2019d rather have a relationship where I don\u2019t have to keep saying,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
we both feel,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
because you feel safe enough to trust them,
you find yourself loving them even more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
is one of the most important parts of love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n