When you’re in love, it’s easy to become so focused on the other person that you can’t think about anything else.

You find yourself constantly wondering what they’re thinking, how they feel about you, and whether things will ever work out.

In fact, many people come to me because of exactly that struggle.

But there’s something important that I think we often forget:

Life has a timeline.

And that timeline matters.

Especially for women, I feel that we can sometimes become impatient with time itself.

We want answers.

We want certainty.

We want to know right now whether he loves us or not.

Whether we’re the one he truly wants.

And that’s completely understandable.

But the future has a way of changing.

Let’s say there’s another woman in his life right now.

Of course, that hurts.

No one wants to hear that.

But what if she ends up falling for someone else?

What if, because of that, he eventually realizes that you’re the person he truly wants?

You may not like the process, but if the outcome is happiness with the person you love, isn’t that still a beautiful ending?

I don’t believe that what matters most is what is happening at this exact moment.

What matters is where everything leads in the end.

The real question is:

Will you ultimately be with the person you truly love?

Marriage is similar.

Getting married isn’t the finish line.

Many people get married and later get divorced.

The real goal isn’t simply obtaining a title or a relationship status.

The real goal is finding someone who continues to see you as irreplaceable throughout life’s journey.

Someone who still chooses you, year after year.

That’s why I believe it’s important to know the difference between what you can compromise on and what you absolutely cannot.

Be flexible where you can.

Hold firm where it truly matters.

And if, in the end, you are able to build a life with the person your heart has always wanted, that sounds like happiness to me.

Of course, this is simply my perspective.

Others may disagree.

But if you’ve found someone you genuinely want to spend your life with, someone you hope to love for years and years to come, I don’t think that feeling should be dismissed so easily.

Ideally, the best relationship would be one where someone loves you from the very beginning and always puts you first.

But how often does that really happen?

As a professional psychic and relationship advisor, I’ve worked with countless people and seen thousands upon thousands of relationship stories.

And honestly, truly perfect love stories are rare.

That’s simply reality.

Which is why I want to tell you this:

If you truly love someone, don’t give up too quickly.

The future is never completely fixed.

What seems impossible today may look completely different tomorrow.

Don’t let today’s circumstances convince you that tomorrow’s happiness is out of reach.

Trust your heart.

Trust the possibility of change.

And most importantly, don’t stop believing in the future you genuinely want.

That’s what I believe.

心晴れるまで

土屋梨沙